...and humility goes out of the equation.
I have a cousin who is really smart, and just maybe, too smart for his own good, and of course everyone concerned.
Since a tender age, you could see that he was much more intelligent than the average child. Topping his class became something like an annual affair and he displayed maturity beyond his years. (Sounds exactly like a young me!)
I used to play with him like how I do with my young cousins (the 2 cute girls you always see in my photos) now. Well, that was when he was still innocent and adorable. Then, it all happened very quickly as he grew up, matured, and became a "
tween". The same time my paedophilic inclination ceased. Haha.
Tween (Urban Dictionary) :An age set overlapping preteens, 'tween 8 and 14. A tween desperately wants to be a teen, but isn't about to stop being a kid. He aced his PSLE, got into the best sec school and is currently in his first year there. Then, I figured things started to turn a bit awry.
You know, as a tween, we all get big-headed over the slightest achievement and slowly but surely, it eats into the humility part of us. If you are not careful, chances are you will look down on everyone inferior and ultimately, end up being ostracized.
(Think: the showoff back in primary school)
You start to think you are the smartest around and respect literally goes out of the window. You start to talk to your elders like they are your peers, and you request for favours with all the due courtesy excluded.
That was what happened to my cousin, and how he treated people around him.
Just imagine a 23 year old talking politics to a 13 year old.
Got the picture?
My aunt was so exasperated by him that she's regretting sending him to the top school already.
Me? I think I had seen it coming for some time.
It's difficult to maintain a balance between EQ and IQ, especially in the tweening years.
Well, but as someone who went through half of what he's going through now, I will attempt to lead him back on the right track.
Anyone else who finds this familiar?