Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Do opposites attract?

Yes, I agree to a certain extent.

Not so much like chalk and cheese totally but more like knight to shining armour, prata to teh tarik, Benitez to Champions League and so on...

So, Complementary is the keyword here.

You fall in love with what completes you. Agree?

"What most people call falling in love is really falling in pattern," he says. "Relationships are about getting our own needs met, often on an unconscious basis. In other words, we try to find someone who is complementary to us and can help us learn, heal, and grow."

Reference: Do Opposites attract?

I do not know if it applies to you but I do believe that.

To be continued...

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

i used to think i'm looking for someone who can complete me, i.e. 1/2cup + 1/2cup = full cup.. but my perspectives changed when someone told me, love is about 1 full cup + 1 full cup = 1 fuller cup. it's up building someone up in love, and not expecting that someone to fill u up in life. i guess when we reach the point of him/her not being able to give anymore, the r/s may likely break down over time. just my 2 cents:)

Anonymous said...

man...you should credit people's words for the posts you make.

and reference! or i could sue you for plagiarism..

Swee said...

That's why its to be continued... Haha.

Swee said...

The feeling of being able to complete someone is...priceless..

Anyway, 1 full cup of sand + 1 full cup of pebbles = 1 fuller cup of sand and pebbles? Haha.

Anonymous said...

not just sand and pebbles man.
beads, rocks, salt, coloured sand..

oh and the classic gel and alphabets.